...here is what they might say:
My hands are small; please don’t expect perfection whenever I make
my bed, draw a picture, or throw a ball. My legs are short; please
slow down so I can keep up with you.
My eyes have not seen the world as yours have; please let me explore safely. Don’t restrict me unnecessarily.
Housework will always be there. I’m only little for a short
time-please take time to explain things to me about this wonderful
world, and do so willingly.
My feelings are tender; please be sensitive to my needs. Don’t nag me all day long…treat me as you would like to be treated.
I am a special gift from God; please treasure me as God intended you
to do, by holding me accountable for my actions, giving me guidelines
to live by, and disciplining me in a loving manner.
I need your encouragement to grow. Please go easy on the criticism;
remember you can criticize the things I do without criticizing me.
Please give me the freedom to make decisions concerning myself.
Permit me to fail, so that I can learn from my mistakes. Then someday
I’ll be prepared to make the kind of decisions life requires of me.
Please don’t do things over for me. Somehow that makes me feel that
my efforts didn’t quite measure up to your expectations. I know it’s
hard, but please don’t try to compare me with my brother or my sister.
Please don’t be afraid to leave for a weekend together. Kids need
vacations from parents, just as parents need vacations from kids.
Besides, it’s a great way to show us kids that your marriage is very
special.
-Unknown
I read this last week and it hit me so hard. I needed to read it and be reminded - maybe you do too.